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Extreme Not. Fiji 20203

From time to time, I travel with friends for part of their vacation or mine. One really big observation comes out of this: People are very opinionated about vacations! Personally, I like beaches. Mostly ocean beaches, but I’ll take a lake beach if the weather is good. And I’ll take a bad beach over a […]

We Should Rethink Our Obsession with a Good Ending

Reading

The first time I read Little Women, I enjoyed it so thoroughly that I remember wishing that it would not end. As I turned the pages and the remainder got smaller and smaller, I started to feel a sense of loss simply because the wonderful story would be over.

Quitting Has A Bad Name

Trimming

The process of trimming – quitting something important – is rarely easy. It can be almost heart breaking.

Lessons from the “Great Resignation”

Resign

Few changes are permanent. People take jobs and leave jobs. Sometimes they go back to a job. Sometimes they change careers, or move across country. Everything keeps evolving. Tune into it and think about where you want to fit. Every day, be a little bit more of what you wish to become.

Your Mind Doesn’t Do You A Lot of Favors

Past Future Good Bad 1200

When we recall memories, we also apply filtering. As we pull them out of storage, we re-write them just a bit to fit within our world view and to provide consistency with other memories.