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Is Too Much Enough?

Teen Girl With Lot Books

Spring is a great time for the re-emergence of this. After all, Spring Cleaning is often just tackling one more pile (or set of piles) that we didn’t tackle last Spring.

YOU Decide What Makes You Happy!

Extreme Not. Fiji 20203

From time to time, I travel with friends for part of their vacation or mine. One really big observation comes out of this: People are very opinionated about vacations! Personally, I like beaches. Mostly ocean beaches, but I’ll take a lake beach if the weather is good. And I’ll take a bad beach over a […]

You Put Yourself Where You Are

You Put Yourself Here

Whether it’s creating a new future or maintaining a status quo, we get what we work toward. My motto for life and business is, “Nothing Happens by Itself.” So, if I don’t like some aspect of my life, I need to accept that I did whatever it took to create my current reality.

Put Depression in its Place

Changing Environment

The reason depression is a monster is that it makes you feel like you have no energy for the things that will help you the most. Ultimately, that’s why it can be so hard to fight. I certainly don’t celebrate the anniversary of my revelation, but I do honor the moment that I realized it could end.

Quitting Has A Bad Name

Trimming

The process of trimming – quitting something important – is rarely easy. It can be almost heart breaking.

Millennials (and Gen X) Are Not a Problem to Be Dealt With

Yay

I have never believed most of the common wisdom spread about Millennials (and Gen X and Gen Z). And after about fifteen years of hearing “advice” focused on these younger generations, I think I finally figured out where the advice goes bad: It is extremely superficial and meaningless

Lessons from the “Great Resignation”

Resign

Few changes are permanent. People take jobs and leave jobs. Sometimes they go back to a job. Sometimes they change careers, or move across country. Everything keeps evolving. Tune into it and think about where you want to fit. Every day, be a little bit more of what you wish to become.